Respect - 2

Ok enough about Kiki. Memang dia lose control la kot masa tu sampai hilang semua rasa respect kat orang tua. Tak nampak dah yang mana patut & yang mana tak patut *dok terngiang-ngiang cara dia keriau tu lagi*.

Tapi kan, bukan dengan orang tua saja kita kena respect. Kita sesama kita pun kita kena respect. Bukan lah I suruh lalu depan I kena bongkok sikit or jumpa I kena salam cium tangan ka apa. Tapi cukup lah kita ada mutual respect. In the simplest things & ways. Dalam cara yang mungkin bagi kita tak effect siapa-siapa tapi bagi orang lain, terasa baq hang. Benda simple-simple ja babe. Contoh. I bagi contoh ya. Contoh reply message. Susah ka nak reply message kawan-kawan? No matter how "busy" you are. Nak-nak pulak kawan tu baru ja ajak keluar. Bila tiba hari itu, you diam membisu. Bukan kawan tu tak follow up, dia tanya tapi sadly, no respond! Not until later that day, you up pulak gambar kt IG what were you "busy" with. That explains a lot of things, babe. Things like so you have an internet connection but you can't let your friend know that you can't make it? Things like out of all the days you had, your friend was only asking for one blady day to get together. If you really can't, just let her know. Stop letting her down. Kalau sekali dua, boleh dimaafkan. Tapi bila dah BANYAK kali sangat, hati mana tak sakit? Hati mana tak terasa? To me, it's like you takdak respect la kat dia. You boleh komen to her FB status, reply in the whatsapp group, the same group the invitation has been sent out (at last! tapi takdak mention about what happened yesterday) like nothing ever happened, but you cannot at least have the courtesy to let her know that you will not be able to make it because your life priority has changed now? Tapi kalau tak ajak, sentap pulok dop?

Memang la to some people "tak payah nak emo sangat". Benda biasa ja. Dia tak rasa apa-apa pun. Yes sebab bukan you yang ajak & being dumped. Bukan you yang being rejected over & over again without notice. Or simply because you're a man. You will never understand this. Never.

Banyak kali I fikir nak tulis ka tak benda ni kat blog. I just have to get this off my chest. Tulis kat FB kias-kias yang mana tau, tau lah. Takkan nak tulis berjela camni. Well, my blog is my journal. I can & I will write anything I want. Takut orang terasa? Well, penat dah kot jaga hati orang. Kenapa tak confront ja orang tu? Don't you think it will be a waste of time? Bukan budak umur 17 tahun. I don't know what type of person you are if  you think your action doesn't leave a mark. A bad one. Sorry lah kalau this sounded harsh ka apa. Tapi tetap tak boleh nak measure dengan what you did kot. 

Yes the "friend" is ME. And the "you" is YOU.